- Do you feel lonely, as if you don't belong anywhere?
- Do you often feel misunderstood?
- Are you struggling and no one seems to notice or care?
- Do you feel like you have lots of acquaintances but no true friends?
I remember when I first got divorced, I would literally start each day saying "I hate my fucking life" and count down the hours until a glass of red wine seemed reasonable. Yes, I had every right to be sad, miserable and angry - for awhile.