Let's face it.  Dating is complicated.  At least for me it is.  After all, I haven't dated since the turn of the century.  And now that I'm "back on the market" I'm facing singlehood as a "cougar" in a world where Match.com and OkCupid have replaced the more traditional approaches of making a love connection. Add to that, my emotional baggage from unsuccessful past relationships, including a failed marriage and the stigma of divorce.  HELP!  So I turned to the wisdom of stand-up comic, Steve Harvey, in his book "Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man".