My quest to "find myself" necessitated a period of sexual sobriety.  Well, I wasn't necessarily sexless by conscious choice. It was more of a sub-conscious thing mixed with a little bit of the inevitable.  I mean, let's face it: a chic presenting with symptoms of Post Marital Stress Disorder and trust issues is far from a man magnet. You could've dressed me up like a hooker, put me on a street corner and I still wouldn't have gotten laid!